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Parent behaviour at TST
European professional academies do not allow parents to coach from the sideline once a session has started. Neither do we, and for exactly the same reasons.
Parents getting involved from the sideline
European professional football academies — clubs like Tottenham Hotspur and AIK Stockholm, and every academy under the Premier League's Elite Player Performance Plan — generally do not allow parents to shout instructions, coaching advice or negative comments from the sideline once a training session has started.
This policy is widespread across England, Sweden and the wider UEFA ecosystem. It is driven by child welfare guidelines, codes of conduct, and a focus on minimising distractions for young players.
Key reasons
Player development and welfare
Academies use structured, coach-led environments to build skills, decision making and mental resilience. Parental shouting confuses players, adds pressure and undermines coaches.
The research is clear
Work on UK academies shows external pressure from parents correlates with higher dropout rates and lower self esteem among youth players.
Codes of conduct
Most academies require parents to sign an agreement covering acceptable behaviour. Positive involvement is defined as supportive presence without disruption.
Enforcement
Coaches may issue warnings, and repeated violations can lead to restrictions on attendance. In extreme cases parents may be barred from sessions.
At TST this means
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